A DAILY REMINDER : I AM HAPPY !

Every person is born with a free will gifted by the almighty . The moment we are born , we give birth to a companion along ... DESIRES . Today we all come from various walks of life  some of us are excellent cooks , some voracious readers , some efficient leaders , some doctors , some students , and some still searching and exploring the thirst for the quest of his or her dreams . In every person mentioned above stays one thing in common , every individual at the end of the day seeks satisfaction . 

Unfortunately the world today is filled with contempt , unhealthy competition ,and yes an unending list . We can count on one thing  in midst  of all this :US.  

We start determining our lives with a happiness  statement or say we set standards for happiness , not all but yes some of us do . Be it a cosmetic brand , a promotion in job  , a friend circle, talent . We are all behind various desires that could keep us entangled within them . What we leave behind is the PRESENT . All these desires drift us apart from the very present today . Allowing ourselves to burn with these endless desires is nothing but VANITY . Today  could bring a lot when we take time to observe and accept rather than expecting . 

Holding  a belief over our desires is necessary but not that it enslaves us in such a way that we aren't able to see the many desires that stay fulfilled throughout the day to keep us blissful.Today you wouldn't have been able to finish your work by deadline but maybe you learnt a lot in the process  including how to keep up time and how you would excel  next time by doing so  ,you mightn't have been able to perform the best in your college fest but maybe you learnt how to perform in front of the crowd , today you mightn't have been able to find a friend but maybe these friends are thinking the same about you so go ahead and speak up . 

Today i am happy as i woke up , i helped strangers find their way to a new street in the city , i am happy because i sang a song loud  even though i am a poor singer , i am happy because my elder sister gave me a hug , i am happy because i still dream to get a revlon product when i can just afford the cheap ones , i am happy because i made somebody smile today ,  i am happy because i really slept well ,i am happy because there is no reason to be unhappy .....ADD YOUR OWN I AM HAPPY LISTS EVERYDAY IN YOUR MIND 

Situations  aren't under our control at times , lets not allow the cycle of desires get us enslaved . Rather let the FIGHT be replaced with a " L" added ...FLIGHT ! 

A flight to a blissful life where everyday i am satisfied , i do something to make myself happy in spite of a tedious schedule . And i am not torn apart just rescheduling and working like a swot . 

I really love finding this phase of day ... bliss , we all do so lets smile over every day when we rise and close our eyelids . Breathe in and out the satisfaction we are extracting from life . Because i keep saying to myself .... BLISS OF LIFE FIND ME SOON ! 

Thank you for reading ,

Always ,

Agnes 

A Dear Diary Moment ...

 Every  morning  there is this blue sky above us, every morning there are people around us getting into their mundane activities . There is this hustle and bustle every day around the  busiest streets of a city or town and crowd that never  makes us feel space around.

I travel back home by a city transport system . On my way back I don’t find myself fortunate enough in  confronting picturesque locations as they say in the tale of novels  describing london’s  street beauty and much more  , but there is this one thing that remains on my way back .

 I haven’t found any close companions in  my college life as of now  but  as i said there is this one thing that remains . She lays herself  on that window corner  of our bus . Everyday on that same seat I find her . She also shares many things common with me , no companion around her, too close to talk for long . Sharing her space with the wind making her hair move in various directions doesn’t  stop her from looking outside , various people getting by her seat and occupying them wouldn't stop her from looking outside . She is composed with her  communication to the world outside the atmosphere of   the bus. 

I  gaze her everyday when I travel by bus . No matter that I may be having no one around in friends as we term them but this girl makes me feel that I am not a solitary traveler in this journey of finding one . Maybe I am wrong at judging her . Maybe she must be having many friends too. But when I look her I find I could connect with her   .


At times  we should understand that this world around is not always a bad teacher , at times it  gives us experiences wherein we give our test first and learn later .So when we move on with life we should give in to situations at times . We should understand that “it was destined otherwise it wouldn't have come to pass” . This solitude feeling in this world comes in to every person on this earth at some phases of their lives . 

All we got to understand is we will get through it if we could relate ourselves to others . If one could relate to the lives of around them then we could understand that our problems are not alone there is a lot to be sort around too. I  am not the only troubled heart but another umpteen too . 

Relate your lives and relax . 
YOU AREN'T ALONE IN THIS JOURNEY .!!! 

THANKS FOR READING 

ALWAYS ,
AGNES 

ITS TIME TO SET OURSELVES FREE

The most appalling stages of life are actually covered with a very small hidden truth . we   very often surround ourselves with an aura of  pessimism which prevents us at looking at this hidden truth . A truth which we are brought up with , a truth which has made us whatever we are . Being a defensive creature by all means we  find it difficult to place an importance for this truth in our lives during these appalling moments .SELF RESPECT .

 We are all facing challenges in some form or the other through people , circumstances , our very own dear ones in some unfortunate cases . But , this is where we make the mistake we give up in protecting ourselves . we give up the greatest shield of ours -self respect . When we start demeaning ourselves then there is only despair.  Life's journey begins at the age of 1 . nobody is aware when is one going to die . But it's better  not to do that every moment of your life. 

Every moment one needs to pat oneself for a good deed done , for a new beginning, for overcoming failures , for LIFE ITSELF . self respect comes when one starts to believe in one's efforts , one's right upbringing . It all begins with SELF though . 

Let not life  run farther away until we realize this . respect for who you are today . Stay confident . Brighten yourself with your self respect . Let the vibe grow stronger . Let it flow all through your life .

LET YOUR LIFE BE A HEAD-START TODAY WITH YOUR SELF RESPECT . 

THANKS FOR READING 

ALWAYS 

AGNES . 

MY FIRST BLOG

A tender part of us resides . Unknown to the world , difficult to be reached . Nobody knows it except us and this tender being . Today we  want to live a life that defines us independent , strong , bold, empowered , secure and safe . 

And there is a rush to achieve all that we can until we are able to control this tender part of us safely within us ,without being known to the world . Today we don't want to be hurt , scared , anxious yet only be high spirits , the more the better . Actually ALWAYS . 
we tag them , name them , kiss them , hug them yet we know there is part of us which nobody is aware of , a part which is only between me and me . One could express their tender beings present within them but they are scared , scared of the world today , scared of the people today . The people who could strike you down with their words , their deeds and they themselves . As we all know we can't read minds . But here is the beginning ...  TRUST . 

As a matter of fact we all know that trust is the foundation of all relationships , but the grim reality is today most of the  people don't want to trust and don't want to be trustworthy . Let that not be the case . 

Being trustworthy is  being humane. Take chances to know people , get close a form a bond of trust . But don't convert your trustworthiness into hatred for someone else's mistakes . Let not the world around snap your goodness to the society . Let not your trust stay undelivered to people who would need it , people who would care for it . Just because it didn't work out once doesn't conclude it  as BEING MISUNDERSTOOD  { TRUST }  forever . 



Develop an attitude of trust and LIVE to be trustworthy , 
GOD BLESS YOU .

THANKS FOR READING .
ALWAYS ,
AGNES